Eat some sleep, so that I become the consumer rather than the consumed. I should re-read Salad once I have recovered from my sleep-deprivation. Stuff’s good.

I will have more to say—here and elsewhere—later tonight.

I turned twenty in early June, so this is my twenty-first summer coming to a close.

And what a ride.

I spent one month in reclusive angst and unproductiveness, emerging from my room only to drag my sorry corpse up the hill to a summer class which I quickly decided was a bad idea. I spent most of the month living alone. I moved out early from the Honey & Clover-esque room I’d shared with my ex for a year, and, when my father kicked me out of his apartment for telling him that I walked on a daily basis, I found myself moving into my new place ahead of all my new housemates.

So I settled in alone.

July was a very different story. I finished my class on the third of the month and went on to spend the remaining twenty-eight days on my writing. But I still didn’t emerge much from my room. I did social things maybe four or five times. I was more productive—and I started this blog—but it wasn’t exactly the best of times.

And now August. Mostly more of the same.

But this summer has been weird. I’m facing forward and I’m seeing my first semester of college as a single man. I’m seeing my first semester of college with none of my old friends. The last of them left my town early this month, headed for grad school.

Time to make new buddies!

It would be nice if I found my HTT, but I’ll hold back on holding my breath ;)

A new academic year and a new set of challenges.

Moving up but not forward.

Maybe I can change that?

Time to water my plant. Last night my brother killed the washing machine.

I have an odd fascination with how multifaceted the Japanese yaru is… initially, it might seem weird that HTT didn’t have a “yatta” moment after its last swan song, if only because it’s the kind of thing that would lead nicely into their break-down, but eh: K-ON!! is surprisingly good at implication and leaving things unsaid.

Hm. Another Monday. Last Monday I was away from the internet, and away from my plant.

Hey. I’m still here.

“We graduated a long time ago,” quoth Mio.

Yeah. Two years? We’ve now spent a tenth of our lives beyond high school, and that fraction can only increase as time passes.

Moving up but not on.

Byousoku 5 Centimeter is an immortal film for me. I can watch it anywhere, anytime, and it will have value. Depending on my mood, and depending on my company, I will have different reactions to it. Sometimes I will laugh at how bathetic Tohno Takaki is—at the age of thirteen, upon having his first kiss in the midst of a hormonal Rage, he has a Moment of Clarity and casts divination. And suddenly he gains the divine foresight to know that once he returns to Tokyo to complete the move to Kagoshima, his relationship with Akari will fall apart.

Hilarious, on multiple levels.

But sometimes, that same scene under the same tree in the same snow (“Isn’t it like cherry blossom petals?”, to invert a line from the movie)—sometimes, it pulls at my heart.

Upon completion of the movie, something that happens a handful of times per year, I find myself mulling over a complicated problem. How does it manage to affect me? I know the premise is silly; I know Takaki is melodramatic; I know he smiles at the end; I know none of it matters that much. A long-distance relationship in middle school ends, and Takaki’s life is ruined. The hell? Yet sometimes—more often than not—nay, always, the film does move me.

I guess I can relate to Takaki on some levels.

Distance sprawls across this country like thousands of miles of manifest destiny, and it separates me from a girl who exists in my head. She exists in real life, ostensibly—her Facebook profile gets updated from time to time—but mostly she exists in my head. In a sort of Akari-sitting-on-a-hill-watching-the-sunrise way.

“Tohno wasn’t looking at me,” says Kanae.

I’m looking through you.

All of you. Sorry, folks. Surprised? Probably not.

I don’t write text messages that I don’t send. I don’t write e-mails that I don’t send. I don’t open chat windows, only to close them without having typed anything. Okay, so I totally do do that last one. But people are silly. Takaki can’t write Akari another letter after he loses his first copy to the train station wind. Akari can’t hand Takaki her letter, instead choosing to summarize her thoughts with the last line she’d written: “you’ll be fine.”

“You’ll be fine.”

That’s essentially what I was told by the girl to whom I confessed in December 2007. It was apologetic. I said “thank you.” I had already seen the first part of 5 cm/s, but of course I didn’t make any connection at the time. Connections and analogies are made in the past, right?

Unless you’re Tohno Takaki.

Then you make all your connections in the present, and you narrate your future in the past. Then you’re Honey & Clover’s Takemoto. And now we’re dealing with nostalgia and tragedy. Tragedy. Nostalgia.

“All I wanted was to move forward,” says Takaki.

I’ve never been quite so desperate as he. Nor so melodramatic. But one day my girlfriend of three years seventeen months explained to me why she’d fallen in love with another man: I felt distant to her. “Even if we’d exchanged a thousand text messages, our hearts wouldn’t grow one centimeter closer.” She didn’t say that, but maybe I’m more like Takaki than I ever expected.

Open your eyes.

Always, I want to be with you.

5 cm/s is thematically similar to that 80’s synthpop song I posted two weeks back. And to the crown jewel of Evanescence’s musical career, “My Immortal.” Erasure—Evanescence—and then the new tsunami which washes everything way: Niitsu Makoto.

Takaki creates an Akari in his imagination. In so doing, he foils one of Descartes’s two proofs for the existence of god. (The imagined Akari is clearly more perfect than the real Akari, so the real god might be less perfect than the imagined god, so he doesn’t have to exist, etc.)

Takaki always wants to be with Akari, to make believe with her, to live in harmony.

And Evanescence? Come on. The connection practically writes itself.

I’m so tired of being here, suppressed by all my childish fears
And if you have to leave, I wish that you would just leave
Your presence still lingers here and it won’t leave me alone

When I rewatched 5 cm/s the other day, I asked myself if I wasn’t guilty of some of the same sins as Takaki. When I rewatched it again this morning, I told myself I almost certainly was.

Why didn’t Takaki reach out to Akari? Why didn’t he keep trying?

Well, why didn’t I reach out? Why didn’t I keep trying?

“People are afraid to hope.” I could leave you with a vague answer like that, but I think there’s more going on here. Specifically, I think the theme of this blog is coming up, and thus needs mentioning: enryoshimashita. Takaki. I. We figured we’d pass. We didn’t want to ask for too much. We didn’t want to impose. So we refrained, we held back.

Is saying “No, Thank You!” a bad idea?

I’ll pass on answering that question.

I’m shirking all ‘duties’ today, instead choosing to sit around with my brother, father, and cat. The stuffed panda balanced on the back of the living room armchair is hugging my dad’s neck, like a good friend, or a great enemy. The air and light are soft, the atmosphere soothing.

We’re listening to Izzy and discussing our futures (my father is approaching retirement, my brother, grad school).

I don’t have many of my own plans to contribute to the discussion, but I can’t pass up on an opportunity to ponder the affairs of others. Retirement sounds fun. As does joining the anime club at my bro’s new university.

I suppose I still have time to join the one at my school.